Steady Send
Pause before you send something you might regret
When a draft might escalate tension, Copara offers optional rewrite suggestions that preserve what you need to say. You choose whether to use a suggestion, edit it, or send your original message.
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- Can we move Friday pickup to 4:30? I have a work call until 4.
- You always change plans last minute.
Tone: Tense
Suggestions
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How Steady Send works
- 1Type your message in the composer as you normally would.
- 2After a brief pause, Steady Send analyzes tone and flags phrases that may escalate conflict.
- 3You receive one to three full rewrite suggestions, not just tone labels.
- 4Tap a suggestion to replace your draft, or send as-is. Steady Send never blocks sending.
What Steady Send is not
Clear boundaries keep the tool trustworthy for both parents and professionals.
- Not legal advice. Consult your lawyer for legal questions.
- Not side-taking. Rewrites aim for neutrality, not advocacy.
- Not automatic. Nothing sends without your explicit action.
- Not a substitute for thoughtful co-parenting when you have time to reflect.
Copara does not provide legal advice. Exports are tamper-evident records suitable for review by legal professionals. They are not certified, court-approved, or guaranteed admissible.